4 tips for your summer routine

Why love a summer routine?

Summer routine is something we can learn from the flowers. In fact all living things respond subtly to the seasons and that’s what a summer routine supports you to do. I teach movement and Pilates in Lennox Head, Ballina and Byron Bay, helping women connect with and love the bodies they have.

We are more like flowers than kettles. As women, we respond to hours of daylight, temperature and hydration, just like the flowers, we are intimately linked to our environment. Part of being healthy is acknowledging this. We are not machines (hooray)!

How summer changes us

Summer changes us every year. Shifting our sleep patterns and affecting our energy levels. Understanding how the season affects you helps you know what your summer routine needs to be.

More daylight hours

Earlier sunrise and later sunsets is a feature of Summer. If you have daylight savings time this will give you more daylight at the end of the day. Making the best use of this extra daylight is at the heart of a good summer routine.

The heat is on

Summer is when the heat is on! This can make getting out in the middle of the day more difficult, so the longer mornings and afternoons become even more important.

If you live in sub-tropical or tropical places Summer comes with humidity. Increased sweat and fluid loss means hydration becomes more important.

Later nights

Winding down after later evening activities can be a challenge during summer. This shift to later bedtimes can result in an accumulated tiredness towards the end of the season.

What is your routine?

My what? Yes I’m asking you. Everybody has a routine, even if you don’t think you do. You do. Your routine is the things you do each day without thinking. Get up, toilet, make tea etc.

To make a new routine you need to know what your current routine is and how you want to change it. So, write down the things you do automatically every morning and every evening.

Have a look at your list, are there any changes you want to make for Summer?

Insert your new Summer habits into your routine and get the most out of the season.

My suggestions for new Summer habits

Earlier to bed

This is an important one for me. I live in NSW so daylight savings means I need to go to bed an hour earlier to not want to wake up an hour later! Getting out into the daylight in the early morning helps me make the most of Summer. I feel alive and well rested with this adjustment to my routine.

Hydration, hydration, hydration

Whether your summer is wet or dry, staying hydrated is more important in the heat. Reduce stress on your body simply by drinking plenty of H20 every day. Carry a water bottle with you. Refill it or your glass as soon as they are empty.

Move a little every day

Well, this one isn’t really just for Summer, but the challenges are different in Summer. Heat can be a real deterrent to exercise and movement. Getting out in the early morning and the late afternoon is the best solution for this.

Commit to something new

With the change of season it’s fun to try something new. New experiences keep life feeling fresh! If you are regular at Pilates and movement try a new activity that your movement practice will support you into such as Stand up paddle boarding or Dragon boat racing. If you don’t have a movement practice now is a great time to start!

4 Tips for changing your routine

  1. Keep your shifts to your routine small – the suggestions in this blog are a great way to start
  2. Integrate one change at a time – get one thing happening before starting the next
  3. Have an accountability partner – grab a friend and work out your changes together, then support each other.
  4. Choose changes that make you smile – we all know what we ‘should’ do but if you choose a change that you are genuinely curious or excited about it’s more likely to stick.

As we move into Summer remember, you are just like a flower and flowers respond to the environment around them. Treating yourself like an organism not a machine is a great reason to reset your routine for summer.

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I am Brigid Pearse a Diploma certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.

Why do an annual reflection?

An annual reflection is …

when you take some time to look back on the decisions and choices you have made over the last year and reflect on whether or not they are taking you towards what you truly want.

Does life ever feel like it’s dragging you through a bush backwards? The demands of everyday take up so much time, it’s the best you can do to get through to the end of the week to your well earned glass of chilled bubbly!

Imagine if you knew what your priorities are

Imagine, you said ‘yes’ and ‘no’ to things based on YOUR priorities. The coming of the new year is a great opportunity to take some time to get some clarity on your own priorities. One of the best ways to do this is to look back.

If you are stuck in overwhelm, it can be hard to see what your true priorities are. If you are not feeling inspired by life and like everything is a chore you may not know where to start. That is why looking back is so valuable, your past experiences are a gold mine of information for you.

That’s why you need to do an annual reflection.

What is an annual reflection

An annual reflection

An annual reflection is taking time to take stock of where you are compared to twelve months ago. Acknowledging what has gone well and what hasn’t. What you want more of and what you want less of. This process of pausing to reflect has a lot fo power in it because:

  • It takes the focus off ‘doing” so you can think
  • Remembering where you were at 12 months ago will bring back the actions you took
  • Reflecting on what went well and what didn’t helps make the path ahead clearer
  • You acknowledge the good in life so it can expand!

Looking backwards to look forwards

If you haven’t done an annual reflection before you may it may feel odd to make time to look back. If you are chasing big dreams you want to be looking forward right? But looking back can give us so much information on what we love and what we don’t. Looking back allows us to really celebrate our wins and acknowledge how far we have come. Looking back reminds us that we are in charge of the choices we make and it gives us a chance to make different choices in the future.

Consider your body an equal player in your reflection

Reflecting is a mental exercise but it can also involve you body! Considering your body an equal player in the your reflection will give you more information. Make sure you set up for your reflection in a comfortable space where you can be present with your body. It’s important to be able to move your body as you work through your reflection so you can notice different feelings in your body as you reflect on different aspects of your life.

Reflect on different areas of your life

I forget what movie it is but I remember a story about a mid-life woman moving to a falling down Italian villa and setting about restoring it on her own, with the help of some hunky neighbours of course! Her lesson through the movie is to “Live spherically”, to not focus just one part of life but to tend to all the aspects of life that make it worth living. Work but not just work, family but not just family, health but not just health.

What about goals?

It helps to have an understanding of your goals to help clarify your reflection, although sometimes your reflection can clarify your goals.

For example: I had a goal to have X face to face clients by a certain date. In my quarterly reflection I noticed that I had loved the online teaching I had done. So I shifted my goals to accomodate more of what I was enjoying!

Regular reflection helps you to shift your goals rather than feel bad about not meeting an arbitrary goal that doesn’t really fit what you want anymore.

If goals are a stretch try values

Believe it or not goal setting doesn’t work for everyone. Sometimes the pressure of a goal can feel too much and end up pushing us into overwhelm rather than empowerment. If this feels like you, try zeroing in on values instead.

Articulating what you VALUE in your life is a great ‘North Star’ so you know where you are heading. You can articulate values in lots of different ways. To simplify this process I like to focus on what I value in life and let that be my guide.

I value time with my family, financial independence, connecting with nature, my body wisdom.

These values have underpinned the life I have created with my movement business. Values can provide that high level guidance around where to put your time and energy, what choices are right for you.

It’s good to narrow your values down to 3-5 for now.

Tips for a great annual reflection

Make a special time and place:

To do an annual reflection set aside time when you won’t be disturbed for 40-60 minutes, choose a place that is free from distraction where you can get comfortable. Remember your body is an equal player in your reflection so she needs to be comfortable. Equip yourself with some pens and paper and get writing.

Look back to look forwards:

Begin by remembering your aspirations for 2022. What were your hopes? Your goals? Maybe you wrote them down. If not cast your mind back to recall what was on your mind this time last year, what were you hoping the new year would bring? Get as specific as you can.

November is a great time to reflect:

November really is a great time to reflect on the year. Before the silly season gets in full swing. Making time in November means that come January I already know what I need to be choosing in the new year to take me towards my values and my goals.

Be sure to celebrate the past:

Acknowledging your achievements is one of the most important parts of an annual reflection. Even if what you achieved wasn’t part of your plan. You may have dealt with an unforeseen adversity, you may have suffered a loss. Give yourself credit for what you have weathered as well as what has gone well.

Step through a series of questions:

Ask yourself a series of questions. For example ask; What do I want more of in my life, what do I want less of? Or ask; What makes me genuinely happy? How can I spend more time doing that?

Get some specific actions steps:

Once you worked through your questions be sure to narrow down a few practical steps or actions in a list to guide you into the new year. These actions should focus on the very next steps you need to take to move towards your goals or values.

Schedule in your next reflection:

If you enjoyed the process schedule in a monthly or quarterly reflection to check in on your progress and let that give you more information on what you want more of and what you want less of.

If you are in the Northern Rivers area I am leading an event for Sourdough Business Women on 23 November incorporating movement, guided reflection, healthy food and connection with other local women. Tickets available now.

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I am Brigid Pearse a Diploma certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.

Stiff every morning? Try these moves

Waking up feeling stiff every morning is not a great way to start the day. It can make you apprehensive about getting out of bed and no matter how old you are can make you feel one hundred years old!

In Lennox Head in the northern rivers of New South Whales I teach people of all ages Pilates to help them do life better. A common complaint of my clients is waking up feeling stiff in the morning. A regular movement practice like Pilates, Tai Chi, Yoga or Chi Kung is great as a long term solution for feeling stiff, sore and a hundred years old when you wake up in the morning.

However all of us need a quick fix every now and then! The series of movements in this article are moves you can do before you get out of bed to warm up your joints and stimulate circulation and return your blood to your heart for oxygenation before you bounce out of bed.

You may be surprised at how gentle these moves are. That’s deliberate. This series is intended for just after you wake up, we are coaxing the body awake. Don’t underestimate the power of these movement to set you up for a great day of moving just because they are gentle.

Lift your feet

Our blood circulation and lymph slow down during our long overnight sleep.This is why lifting your feet is a great movement to do first thing. I have demonstrated these movements on a roller because it is nice to do these moves with your hips slightly lifted. You could use a pillow or two under the back of your hips for the same effect or you could lift your feet without lifting your hips.

Ankle rotations

Once your feet are raised, legs reaching to the ceiling, it’s time to get your ankles moving. Start by pointing and flexing your feet luxuriously. Then start to circle your feet one way and then the other. You want most of the movement to be in the ankles with activation in the calf muscles. This activation of your ankles and calfs helps to return your blood to your heart and loosen up your ankle joints so they ready for weight bearing when you stand up.

Ankle rotations

Lymph Drainage

Gentle lymph drainage is great when you feel stiff every morning. With your hips raised and legs and feet in the air begin gently brushing your skin from your ankle to just above your knee, one leg then the other. The lighter the touch to your skin the better. Tickling your lymph just under your skin to get it moving.

Joseph Pilates was very interested in internal cleansing of the body by flushing the lymph “discharging through your bloodstream the accumulation of fatigue products created by muscular and mental activities”. Clearing the lymph in this way can reenergise your body from the inside out.

Breathing deeply with a ling controlled exhale, making sure you breathe all your air out before your next inhale helps with this ‘internal cleansing’ oxygenating the blood as you move the lymph.

Do each leg a fee times before moving on the other one and repeat both legs a couple of times. You might even feel your cheeks flush a bit as a result of this exercise!

Bicycles both ways

Borrowing now from the Pilates repertoire, hips raised legs and feet in the air, let’s get your legs moving! Bicycles continue this movement of the blood and the lymph as well as mobilising your knees and hips. Begin cycling the legs forward, see if you can touch your foot on the bed as you slide it back towards your bottom, this will activate both the front and back of your hip as you move through hip flexion and gentle hip extension.

Cycle forward for at least 25 circles on both sides.

Then reverse the direction and again as you push your foot away from you see if you can touch the bed with your foot before lifting it into the air. Enjoy the range of movement you are getting in your hips, and take this at your own pace. A brisk pace is nice but you can also slow this down to really articulate through your legs. Listen to what your body wants to do. Do this backward direction at least 25 circles on both sides.

Book openings

We are moving up the body now to attend to the mid-spine and rib cage. This area can become a bit locked up during sleeping. We want to move any tightness between the facet joints of the spine and between the spine itself and the back of the rib cage.

Lie on your side and make sure your neck is line with your spine, not higher or lower. You can support your head on your arm as shown or have a low pillow beneath your head. Bend your knees and bring your top hand behind your head elbow bent in front. Take a breath in before you move, exhale as you reach your top elbow back, twisting through your waist. Support your head and neck in your hands and allow your eyes to follow your elbow.

Move gently and notice any tightness. You don’t have to force any tightness out, just move gently through it, filling any tighter parts with breath as you move through the twist. After a few rotations this should start to feel delicious! Give yourself at least 6 repetitions of this each side.

As your spine and rib cage begin to glide more easily begin to focus on your breath, inflating your ribs on your inhale and letting them deflate on your exhale. This will set you up with a deep breathing pattern before you get out of bed.

The cost of waking up stiff every morning

Waking up feeling stiff every morning can make you feel older than you are! This affects what you think you are capable of, what you believe is possible and how confident you feel. Age is not just a state of mind, it’s a state of body too. By giving yourself these moments before rising you are tending to your body, when you do get up after this series of movements take time to let your brain register how you feel.

Notice the little spring you have in your ankles, a little more ease in your knees, hips swinging a little freer, breath coming more easily. Noticing these tiny changes allow them to be registered by your nervous system, your brain gets the message that all is well. We can move out of survival mode and into living.

Enjoy your day!

If you are interested in how Pilates can help you live better just get in touch on the details below.

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I am Brigid Pearse a Diploma certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.

Reasons to love your roller

Reasons to love your roller! Do you have a roller that you bought during lockdown for classes and now you never use it? I want to give you some ideas for home practice so you can benefit from having such a fantastic piece of equipment at home.

Now, to be honest, rollers are not all my clients favourite prop for class, they can be a bit painful to press tight muscles onto. If your skin is sensitive, pressure into the roller can be very unpleasant. However knowing the moves that give good release without discomfort is what this article is all about.

The roller also offers us some great ways to challenge our balance. This can be frustrating, but as long as you are working safely the benefits of the challenge usually win any doubter over. Again knowing the right moves and how to get the right level of challenge for you makes all the difference.

In this blog I have selected a few of my true favourite exercises on the roller. These exercises do not put pressure on sensitive body parts and they challenge balance in the safest ways.

As a Pilates and movement teacher, the roller is one of my favourite class props and here is why:

Reason 1 – Muscle release

As mentioned above, the roller is often used as a muscle release tool. In my view (and evidence supports this) this can often be extremely painful and sometimes increase tightness (think rolling the side of your body with all your body weight on the roller).

I like to use the roller to gently coax tension out of specific muscles. I focus on the Glutes, shoulders, calfs and pelvic floor. These are all areas where people tend to have gripping habits. The moves I recommend below give you full control of pressure into your muscles so you are not bruising your muscles.

Glutes:

First up are our glutes, notoriously used for tucking and gripping to support upright posture. To work towards a better movement pattern sit on the roller and roll over it, try this sequence below to release and lengthen your glutes.

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Shoulders:

Our shoulders hold tension, here is a cheeky shoulder release on your roller. You’ll know when you are in the right spot cos you’ll FEEL it!! after this exercise you should feel freer in your shoulders.

Calfs

Calfs do a lot of work through the day. We often rely on them more than we should. Roll them out to achieve more mobility in your ankles, resulting in a deeper squat and a longer stride. Remember to relax your feet as you roll, relax your feet, relax your feet, relax your feet.

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Calfs on roller

Pelvic Floor release

This one is subtle but strong. Using the roller to contact your pelvic floor is quite easy if you can manage this position. You may prefer a towel over the roller if it feels a bit hard. This position allows for some micro hip movement and release of pelvic floor muscles attaching to the pelvic outlet.

Reason 2 – Alignment

I hear a lot of people struggle with a sore neck from Pilates. Achieving the right position of the shoulders and neck is the only way to avoid this. If you don’t have the upper abdominal strength this can be very difficult. That’s where the roller comes in.

Neck support

Below is an example of the ‘series of 5’ abdominal exercises in the Pilates mat repertoire. Demonstrated here with head and shoulders supported by the roller. This support takes pressure of the head and neck and supports the upper abdominals to engage.

Support your neck and upper abdominals

As you get stronger you can position the roller under the shoulder blades for more of a challenge. Be sure to keep the head lifted and the back of your neck long to avoid neck pain. Keep pulling the base of your ribs back towards the roller for strong abdominals.

Lower back support

Reason 3 – Balance challenge

There are so many ways to challenge your balance on the roller. Lying long ways on a roller gives you loads of opportunities to work your deep abdominals and make it as hard or easy as you like.

Supine on Long Roller

This position has you supported from your tail bone, right to the top of your head. With your hands out to the side you can steady yourself on the ground or you can just use your finger tips to challenge your self more. Play with different leg and arm movements to load your abdominals and challenge your stability.

Reason 4 – Glide

Shoulder Glide

The roller is a great place to do a shoulder glide. The curve of the roller provides a lovely guide for the scapula (shoulder blades) to glide across the ribs and ‘hug’ the sides of the roller. This small movement maintains healthy scapula movement which supports healthy function of the shoulder joint and range of movement of the arms.

I hope this gives you some ideas to get back on your roller. It is a great prop. I always encourage you to start with these moves and then follow your body and try things out. Have fun moving to nurture yourself. X

What you need to know about your Psoas

Your Psoas muscles are the keys to good posture and pain free movement. Read that again. Your Psoas muscles are the keys to good posture and pain free movement.

In the movement world whole books have been written about the Psoas ( and I have read them so you don’t have to!). This muscle is so influential on the way we move that it is worth getting to know it a little better.

We get our Psoas from our evolutionary history as a quadraped (four legged mover). Other quadrapeds have Psoas muscles, dogs, cows and horses for example all share this muscle arrangement with humans.

We are obviously not quadrapeds anymore and our Psoas muscles have adapted to support us to stand upright and to be bi-pedal (two legged mover). However if you suffer from sway back, weak core, tight mid back, rib thrust forward and forward head posture, chances are your Psoas is the key you are looking for to restore your posture and make moving feel good again.

This article will cover some basic anatomy about where and what your Psoas muscles are and what they do. I’ll also cover how your Psoas influences your posture and movement in a positive or negative way. I’ll explore common symptom from a tight Psoas and give you range of ways to move to nurture your Psoas to restore healthy function to these muscles.

I’m excited to share this with you! Enjoy X

Your Psoas and why you need to know it

Your Psoas muscles are the muscles that join your upper body to your lower body. In a quadraped animal, in this case a dog, the Illiopsoas looks like the image below.

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Canine – image thanks to Canineworks

In a human, a bi-pedal animal, it looks like the Illiopsoas muscle group looks like this:

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Illiopsoas muscle group – Thanks to yoganatomy for image

Your Iliopsoas muscle group is made up of three muscles, Psoas Minor, Psoas Major and the Iliacus, these occur on the left and right sides of the spine attaching the spine to the pelvis and the legs.

As you can see from the image above the length and health of the Psoas muscles (Minor and Major) will have a big influence on the position of your pelvis and your spine.

As the tenderloin, or “filet mignon,” of the human body, a healthy psoas is a juicy, supple, dynamic tissue that supports full body expression and responsiveness.

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The Psoas muscles are deep tissue muscles. They do not respond well to ‘muscular’ ways of toning, strengthening or stretching. Psoas muscles need to be well hydrated and free from tension. This unique muscle tissue is located deep within your central axis, growing out from your spine, intimately connected to your nervous system governing your felt sense of the world and how easily you move through it.

Your Psoas and your posture

The condition of your Psoas affects your underlying sense of your body. If your psoas is tight, your whole sense of your body will be tight. If your Psoas is long and unstable this will be your experience of your centre. In this way your Psoas influences your life.

In practical terms the image below shows what a shortened, tight Psoas can do to your pelvic and and spinal position. Over time this arrangement can lead to sway back (lumbar lordosis) with compensations occurring up and down the body.

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Image thanks to Elements Centre

With this sort of structural force working against you, it is easy to see why good posture becomes hard to achieve. If your exercise regime makes your psoas tighter then this becomes a pattern you are reenforcing in your body, making good posture and ease of movement harder and harder to achieve.

When your Psoas is tight and short it becomes harder to properly activate your lower abdominals to stabilise your lower back. Your body then begins to rely on your Psoas for spinal stability. This has major implication for walking.

Your Psoas and walking

Your Psoas muscles are essentially a hip flexor, they are responsible for helping to lift your leg forward from your hip, something we do with each step we take. Being such a deep core muscle it has other functions as well, the Psoas major connects to the vertebrae of the spine, so it has a role to play in spinal mobility and stability also important for the micro movements of walking.

When the Psoas muscles are out of balance for example, one side is shorter than the other, this can result in a twisted pelvis. This will impact on the ability of the pelvis to ‘balance’ on top of the thigh bones with each step, requiring other muscles such as the deep hip rotators to grip down for stability and the mobility required for walking gets pushed up into the spine causing a lot of wear and tear on the lumbar vertebrae.

If the Psoas is tight and shortened this can result in Lumber Lordosis (as in the image above). In this position the upper body begins to ‘hang off’ the Psoas, leaving the abdominals to lengthen and let go. When the Psoas is under this strain all the time it’s function as a hip flexor is compromised, it pulls the femur (top of the thigh bone) forward in the hip socket and puts pressure on the front of the hip.

Walking with these patterns puts pressures on different parts of the body to compensate for these structural imbalances. Walking sets off a tight back or pinching at the front of the hips or knee pain. But really these issues are coming from the pelvic position set by your Psoas.

Healthy Psoas, healthy breath

Not only does our Psoas influence every step we take but it is also intimately connected to the diaphragm under our rib cage, so our Psoas also influences each breath we take.

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Psoas and Diaphragm

If our upper body is hanging off our Psoas, as described above, this tension pulls down on the back of our diaphragm flattening it. So to get all the air out of your lungs you now don’t have the full function of your diaphragm. And when you can’t get all the air out of your lungs you can’t get a full deep breath in.

Rib mobility is also impacted from the pull of a tight Psoas, making it harder for the lungs to fill and expand the rib cage.

All this does sound very depressing! And the impact on your life and movement can be! So let’s get to the move that will keep your Psoas supple and juicy.

Treat your Psoas, treat yourself

Self Assessment

To check your Psoas condition, lie flat on the floor and hug one knee up to your chest. If the back of your other thigh lifts off the mat you have a tight Psoas.

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Psoas test

Psoas – relax and lengthen

To begin to release Psoas tension, gently is the only way to go. This requires no effort or force, rather this is a letting go of all doing, of all tension, to let your deep tissues relax and let go. Lie flat on the floor with a bolster or couch pillow under your shoulders and neck with nothing underneath your ribs, legs out straight. If that is too uncomfortable you put a roller or another pillow under your knees, so you can relax. Your job is to let go of all tension in your torso. I like to breath consciously into the back of my ribs. Eventually you want your ribs to drop down into the space that was under them, but this happens through surrender not through pushing them down.

Make this one a regular relaxing position and your Psoas will love you for it. Find excuses to get into this position, if your kids want you near them while they fall asleep this is a great position to get yourself in, if you have a projector and like to watch movies on the ceiling this is a great time to relax your Psoas, or make this part of your meditation practice.

Can you see my ribs drop down?

Psoas massage

If you have a soft ball at home, this one is great especially for digestive issues associated with a tight Psoas. The ball needs to be very light and soft, placed to the side of your belly on top of your straight leg.

Psoas – lengthen and soften

Retest again

To be really clever we should do the Psoas test again to check in on tightness after we have completed these moves. So do that at least once or twice a week. To make progress and release Psoas tightness you will need a gentle approach and a fair bit of patience, think of it as a meditation practice rather than an ‘exercise’ or ‘workout’. This is about restoring function to deep muscles in your body. Reach out with any questions!

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I am Brigid Pearse a certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.

What to do when you have shoulder pain

Do you have shoulder pain? You may have a diagnosed injury such as a rotator cuff injury or frozen shoulder. Or you may feel pinching or strain around your shoulders affecting the range of movement of your arm. You may experience tightness in your shoulders contributing to neck pain.

In my Pilates studio in Lennox Head I work with clients with shoulder issues to improve the way they move and reduce pain and the likelihood of injuries recurring.

High intensity exercise can exacerbate an underlying condition so my approach is to work gently to learn correct technique before levelling up.

Signs your shoulders need care:

  • Tight neck and shoulders
  • Pinching or clunking of the shoulder as your arm moves
  • Rotator Cuff injury
  • Reduced range of movement of your arm

Why are you getting pain

Our shoulders are designed to move in a certain way. When we have movement habits that wear and tear one muscle or tendon over others this results in pain in the shoulder complex.

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There is a lot going on in a shoulder. There is one thing that will always help your shoulder complex. The position of your arm. With exception of bone spurs, all shoulder issues are improved by proper humeral head (top of the arm) position. You will avoid developing bone spurs by improving your arm position while resting and during movement.

When the humeral head (top of your arm) is being pulled up by tight Trapezius muscles that join up into your neck this puts strain on the rotator cuff muscles. Or if your pec muscles at the front of your chest are pulling your humeral head (top of your arm) forward this will strain the rotator cuff muscles.

Rotator cuff injuries

The job of your rotator cuff muscles is to rotate the top of your arm bone and lift it away from your body. If the position of the head of your arm bone is ‘off centre’ this will wear one or more of your rotator cuff muscles more than the others.

Shoulder bursitis

Bursitis is another common shoulder complaint. You can see in the image above if the arm bone is pressing up and the bursa between the arm bone and the clavicle is getting squashed, over a long period of times, this leads to inflammation of the bursa or shoulder bursitis.

Frozen shoulder

Frozen shoulder also known as adhesive capsulitis is characterised by stiffness and pain in the shoulder. Starting gradually and progressing to limit virtually all movement of the arm. If you think you may have frozen shoulder definitely consult a manual therapist as well as trying the moves below.

Simple moves to improve your arm position

While standing

How you stand can make a difference to the position of your arms in your shoulder joints. If you habitually stand with rounded shoulders this can impinge on the bursa in the shoulder, lengthen and weaken the rotator muscles that attach to your scapula at the back. A good tick is to roll your palms out when standing. This helps to roll your humeral head (top of your arm) and place it back into your shoulder joint.

Pec stretch against the wall

Most of us have shoulders that are rounded forward. You can blame sitting a computer, driving, watching TV, most of what we do involves this rounded forward posture. As a result the muscles at the front of the chest that join to the top of your arms known as the “pec” muscles tend to get tight and short. In order to get the top of your arm back into your shoulder joint you may have to stretch these pec muscles. Try this stretch below.

Band rotations

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Arm lifts with bar

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While driving

Pinkies lead the way

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While sleeping

Your position while sleeping can negatively impact your shoulder. If you side sleep on a flat pillow your shoulder can get squashed underneath you as in the image below on the left. Try a higher pillow that keeps your neck in line with your spine and takes this weight off your shoulder as in the image below right.

While lifting

I can never let an article go by without mentioning the hip hinge! Hip hinging is a great way to approach lifting in everyday life and this really applies to shoulder position as well. We want the arms to be supported by the back when lifting. If your back is over arched then the arms won’t get the support they need from the back muscles. A quick trick is to tuck the chin when you hip hinge to lift something (see images below). The image on the left shows me popping my chin forward and my back arching as a result. In the image on the right I am tucking my chin and my spine is neutral to allow the full strength of my back to support my arms – a better position for lifting.

A little every day

The important thing for shoulder care , and really any new movement pattern you want to learn, is to practice a little everyday. Try these moves above everyday for at least 2 weeks to see if your shoulders start to feel better. Or better yet get in touch to schedule a session that is tailored for you.

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I am Brigid Pearse a certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.

5 reasons to look after your pelvic health (at any age)

Pelvic health is usually not your top priority, I get that, but pelvic health actually gets you closer to your health goals than you think!

At my Pilates studio in Lennox Head I work with clients to improve movement, reduce pain and build strength and flexibility. The goals that my clients have range from “improve my core strength” to “being able to walk the coastal walk without pain”. Pelvic health play a role in achieving both these goals plus a few other like:

  • reducing lower back pain
  • having better posture
  • treating incontinence
  • improve leg strength

If you are interested in improving these things read on to find out why good pelvic health will help you with these things and how to get it!

1 Your pelvic position determines your posture and your pain

Your pelvis attaches to your spine at the top and to your legs (femurs) at the bottom. It is wrapped in layers of muscles. The length of these muscles determine to position of your pelvis, whether it tilts forward or back, or whether it is twisted.

The image below shows how tight leg muscles at the front pull the pelvis forward and tight leg muscles at the back pull the pelvis back. This image also shows how the pelvic position affects the position of the spine. If your pelvic position is too far forward or pulling too far back this can cause chronic back and hip pain.

Knowing your resting pelvic position and how this influences the alignment of your spine (your posture) is the first step in understanding how your pelvic health is affecting the rest of your body.

You can assess this yourself by standing side on to a mirror and observing if your pelvis is tipping forward (belly hangs forward) or tipping back (bottom tucks under).

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Leg muscle length and pelvic position

2 Know the difference between pelvic strength vs pelvic tension

Clients will often come to me wanting to improve their core strength. When I dig a bit deeper to understand why they will often tell me they think they have a weak pelvic floor and they need to “tighten things up”. It is important to understand that tight muscles are weak muscles. It is often (but not always) that when people say they have weak pelvic floor they may have symptoms such as incontinence (leaking) or prolapse. These conditions often (but not always) indicate tightness in the pelvic floor muscles that cause pelvic floor dysfunction (including leaking or prolapse).

In order to strengthen your pelvic floor you need to be able to relax it. WAIT WHAT? Yes. Simply focusing on tightening your pelvic floor will usually make your symptoms worse over time!

To relax your pelvic floor it can be helpful to sit on a rolled up towel to bring your attention to the area. On your inhale focus on letting your pelvic floor muscles drop into the towel. Or try this. The more they drop the better they will lift on the exhale, this flexibility and movement of the pelvic floor muscles builds strength over time. If your pelvic floor muscles are unable to relax and move they are not able to get stronger.

3 Pelvic movement for pain free walking

Understanding your pelvic health is essential for pain free walking. We have already discussed how the pelvic is wrapped in muscles and depending on which muscles are tight and which ones are weak influences the position of your pelvis. Similar to the movement needed in your pelvic floor to build strength, the same can be said for your hips. The muscles in your hips each attach to different parts of your pelvis and your legs, as the bones move the muscles support them. There is an interplay between the muscles and bones. If the bones of the pelvis are fixed and don’t move then the surrounding muscles get weak.

Pelvic health

Check out this video showing the movement of the pelvis and legs during walking and what happen if one part of the pelvic girdle gets stuck.

4 Pelvic balance for strong legs

Your legs start where they join to your pelvis. The top of your thigh bone (femur) sits in the bottom of the pelvis. If the position of your pelvis is being tugged by tight leg muscles, then the muscles on the other side are going to be weak and long. This is why the position of your pelvis is important for building leg strength. If you do a lot of leg work without paying attention to the position of your pelvis your progress will non existent at worst, slow at best.

Achieving pelvic balance is about balancing core (abdominal) strength with leg strength to support good pelvic position. This often involves glute stretching and hip flexor stretches to get the balance right for each person.

5 Relaxing pelvic floor for breathing

Your pelvic floor functions as a diaphragm, that means it mirrors the activity of your thoracic diaphragm (under your ribcage). Your pelvic diaphragm moves up and down with your breath just as your thoracic diaphragm does. If your pelvic diaphragm is tight from excessive training or holding on then it will not move with your thoracic diaphragm and this will limit the capacity of your breathing which will, in time, result in a less mobile ribcage.

We all know that breathing is important to supply our bodies with oxygen. It is also important to keep the muscles around our ribcage strong and supple. If they move less because the lungs take in less air these muscles get weaker. They are then less able to support our arms and neck for standing and walking.

In summary…

Your pelvic floor is right in the middle of your body. Every movement you do requires coordination and support from your pelvic floor with other muscles in your body.

Your pelvic floor is the foundation of your core strength. To build core strength without a healthy, functioning pelvic floor is like building a heavy building on the sand. It won’t hold.

For long term independence, continence and mobility, work with a movement professional who understands pelvic floor health to get the most out of your movement efforts and your body.

I am Brigid Pearse a certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.

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Why you need to stop judging your body

It doesn’t matter what exercise you are doing, or not doing, stop judging your body and you will get so much more out of it!

I hear it from clients a lot, “this is my bad hip”, “this is my ‘lazy’ leg”, “my knees are atrocious”, “my back is a mess”, “I have no core”. Just harmless comments right?

Wrong. Being in a habit of judging your body can really get in the way of your health goals.

Here are some reasons why you need to stop judging your body. Body judgement is not helpful to anyone. Here are some of the things you miss out on if you are in the grip of body judgement.

Judgement kills curiosity

Curiosity is one of the greatest tools you have to build a loving relationship with your body. If you are judging one body part or your whole body, this can really kill your ability to be curious.

For example “I have atrocious knees” is a judgement. There isn’t really anywhere you can go from that judgement. If we reframe that thought to:

“I have pain in my knees when I bend them like this, I wonder why they hurt when I do that?”

This gives us an opportunity to learn more about our body. It opens us up to trying new things that might change how we experience our knees.

Sitting in judgement of our body makes discovering new experiences in our body more difficult.

Mind body connection

The mind body connection is the link between a person’s thoughts, attitudes and behaviours and their physical health.

In movement practices like Pilates, Yoga and TaiChi, the flow of the movement and our focused intention creates a deeper sense of connection of the mind with the body.

Awareness of breath is a part of these practices, calming the nervous system, helping to quiet mental chatter by focusing on the movement, bringing us into the present moment.

Judgement of our bodies can really hold us back from this wonderful inner connection with ourselves.

If we are constantly worrying if our leg is high enough or we are doing the exercise exactly right, we can miss what’s going on inside.

Seek out a teacher who holds a safe space for you to stop judging your body, connect with you breath and get into flow.

Developing self esteem

Self esteem, or feeling good about yourself regardless of your outside achievements is a foundation of wellbeing. This foundation is there for you if you are injured or you lose a loved one or life deals you a blow completely outside of your control.

Developing self esteem does not come from working really hard for your dream body! It doesn’t come from working so hard that everyone in the office can’t do a thing without you.

Self esteem comes from appreciating what you have and who you are, and that includes your body. As she is today. Self esteem is the understanding that you are worthy of being here in the world without having to prove a thing.

For women self esteem can get very tangled with body image issues. I know because I have had this confusion myself. Since I could remember I have wanted to be a different shape than I am. I was taught to diet early on and I have confused developing self esteem with trying to have a different body many times.

I now know, I have the body I have. I am better able to care for the body I have if I feel loving towards her.

Role model for the next generation

Learning to appreciate and love our bodies as they are isn’t just good for us, it’s good for everyone around us. Especially our children. Children learn pretty much everything from us so we are in a great position to model love and appreciation of our own bodies to instil that in them.

When young women see older women of all different body types continuing to be physical as they age, a world of possibilities is delivered to them. Embodied women change the world just be connecting with their own bodies exactly as they are right now.

I am deeply passionate about supporting women to find a way to build strength and mobility by connecting deeply with their own body as she is today. Through Pilates, Yoga and functional movement I love to teach women about the miracle of their body and help them see themselves with new eyes.

Pilates near Ballina

I am Brigid Pearse a certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.

Tips for starting a new habit

Starting a new habit can be tough and now that our New Years resolutions are distant memories it’s a good time to check in with how we are tracking towards our health goals. We all have new habits we want to make a part of our lives!As a Pilates teacher teaching Pilates near Ballina, as a mum juggling business and family and as a partner I rely on healthy habits and routines to support me EVERYDAY.

I want you to have the support of healthy habits so I have collected my best tips for starting a new habit in your life. I draw on lots of experts for my approach: BJ Fogg and his Tiny Habits work influences me a lot, Body Kindness by Rebecca Scritchfield and The Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor are books I have read and reread to help me develop my approach to self care.

Tip 1: We change by feeling good

This is number one for a reason. It’s important. Everything we know about brain function tells us this, we change by feeling good not bad. This means when we choose our habit and follow the steps below to support ourselves for success, we cannot beat ourselves up when we forget to do the thing or when things don’t go to plan. It’s all feedback especially ‘failures’ and if we use them to learn and to tweak they are valuable!

Changing by feeling good can also mean changing our self talk. Berating ourselves for starting small or for needing to work on this habit in the first place is very unhelpful. So if you have this kind of self talk going on it’s important to shine a light on it, see this pattern of self talk, thank it and ask it to quiet down and move aside for some more helpful thoughts like. “Starting small sets me up for success” and “This is what I need to work on right now, no judgement”.

Tip 2: Observe your daily habits

You already have habits. They may not be ones you have consciously chosen but we all have behaviour that we repeat without thinking. What do you do when you get out of bed? What are behaviours you repeat everyday and in what order do you usually do them?

Take a few days to become very observant about your own repetitive behaviours at different times of the day. Do you always reach for something sweet after lunch? Or turn the radio on when you walk in the door? Do you always brush your teeth just before bed? Be observant over a few days and then write down these repetitive behaviours in the order that you usually do them through the day.

Your list of repetitive behaviours and their order is the blueprint for your life. These are the behaviours that set your course towards (or away from) your goals. Notice we are not judging the behaviours, just listing them and noting when in the day we do them.

Tip 3: Choose your new habit

There are a couple of important things to note about starting a new habit. It needs to be something you really WANT to do, not something you think you SHOULD do. Just roll that around your head for a moment. Something you really WANT to do.

The other thing to consider when choosing your new habit is the size of the behaviour. You want your new habit to be TINY. I know you are super excited about doing 50 push ups a day and you are feeling really motivated BUT I want your new habit to be something you can do on your worst day. Even on your worst day you can have a go at 5 push ups, but 50? No too much, it’s too hard, I have a headache. It’s not to say you can’t do more than 5 push ups on a good day but you commit to doing at least 5 everyday no matter how you feel.

So you have chosen something YOU really want to do and you have shrunk it down to a tiny behaviour. Time for Tip 4.

Tip 4 Find a prompt

To find a prompt, I want you to pick up your list of repetitive behaviours and look for a logical, convenient place to slip in your new habit. For example if your new habit is to drink more water and your tiny version of that is to fill your water bottle everyday, maybe when you take your dish back to the sink in the morning, you put your new habit in here. Your prompt would be when you put the dish in the sink, you find your water bottle and fill it up.

The key here is for the prompt to make sense, it puts you in the right place to do your behaviour and acts as a reminder to do it. If you find that you forget your new behaviour it may be because you don’t have the right prompt. Trial and error with prompts can teach us about how best to support ourselves.

Tip 5 Celebrate, celebrate, celebrate!

I said that 3 times because this is the step that everyone skips. And this bit is essential. Every time you do the new habit, you have to celebrate! In a way that feels good for you. I like a good fist pump in the air, but some prefer a discrete nod of self satisfaction, others like a victory dance. Whatever makes you feel well pleased with yourself!

This goes back to Tip 1 We change by feeling good. The positive feelings we get from the celebration capture the attention of our brain. Our brain takes note of what happened just before we got that flood of good feeling! The brain takes note and will want to repeat the behaviour that led to the good feeling.

Celebrating needs to happen straight after you do the new habit so your brain associates the good feeling with the new habit. This is the way to anchor a habit loop in your brain.

Tip 6 Review

Now when things don’t go to plan or you forget to do your habit here are some important steps. Celebrate when you remember! This is usually when we like to give ourselves a big judgement kick. Resist the urge to judge yourself right now, take the moment to celebrate that you remembered your new habit, yes fist pump, victory dance what ever is your thing. Then go and do your new habit right away and celebrate again!

If you find yourself forgetting a lot it might be that you don’t have the right habit, either it’s not something YOU really want to do or it’s not TINY enough to do even on your worst day. Or it might be that you don’t have the right prompt so go back to your list of repetitive behaviours and see if there is a better spot to link in your new habit.

Staying out of judgement and seeing all outcomes as feedback is the way to review. Never forget Tip 1 We change by feeling good. As soon as we are judging ourselves we are making it harder to make a new habit stick.

Starting a new habit can be daunting but if we take the self judgement out of it and use what we know about our brains it can really help us to succeed. If you need more help check out my free Tiny Self Care course. This course steps you through the process above with video prompts and support to ask questions. So you can move closer to your health goals.

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I am Brigid Pearse a certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.

Will my pelvic floor ever recover?

If you are wondering what happened to your pelvic floor strength and if your pelvic floor will ever recover, this blog is for you. You may feel pressure down whenever you use your abs, you may leak when you sneeze, jump or cough. You may just have no idea whether your pelvic floor is working at all but your lower back gets sore a lot.

These are common symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction (including pelvic floor weakness). Unfortunately if the symptoms have been around for more than 6 weeks it is unlikely they will resolve on their own.

The good new is that it is likely your pelvic floor will recover by working on your alignment, breathing and the coordination of your muscles. This is non-invasive treatment that you can do with the guidance of a Pelvic Corrective Exercise Specialist and potentially a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist. This is the path to getting your confidence and your life back!

How do I know if I have pelvic floor issues?

Some signs you have lost pelvic floor functions are:

  • Leaking under pressure
  • Pressure down into your vagina
  • Pelvic pain, hip pain or lower back pain
  • Painful sex

Whilst these symptoms are common, they are not normal. Not due to age or having babies. These are signs that your pelvic floor is not functioning well.

How did this happen?

Factors that contribute to decreased Pelvic Floor function are:

  • Pregnancy 

Carrying and growing a baby in your abdomen places extra pressure on your pelvic floor. Hips spread to make room for baby ‘flattening’ pelvic floor muscles making them less responsive. 

  • Hormonal changes

Hormones can influence the quality of soft tissue (muscles) in your body. During pregnancy and postpartum, hormones makes ligaments and muscles for ‘stretchy’ to allow for birth. During menopause hormonal fluctuations can change muscle mass and hydration.

  • Pelvic floor trauma or injury

Tearing, bruising and scar tissue from any incident but most commonly childbirth (vaginal and cesarean) can cause damage to pelvic floor muscles and interrupt function.

  • Faulty pressure management (alignment and breathing)

As part of the ‘core muscles’, pelvic floor muscles help to manage pressure in the body and keep the spine safe. Prolonged issues with alignment can affect the function of both the diaphragm and the pelvic floor muscle group, resulting in poor pressure management.

What’s actually going on?

A common pattern for women (but won’t be correct for everyone) is that they may notice decreased Pelvic Floor tone. They start to hold their pelvic floor tight in order to strengthen it more.

Instead what happens is the pelvic floor muscles become tighter and less responsive. This makes the symptoms worse.

TRY THIS: Can you relax your pelvic floor? Can you feel the muscles drop down? I find it easier to find this at first on the INHALE. As you breathe in relax your pelvic floor and feel it descend. I have heard this described as a sensation of the pelvic floor muscles ‘blooming open’. Can you feel your pelvic floor muscles let go? If not you may have pelvic floor tightness.

Pelvic floor tightness goes hand in hand with pelvic floor weakness. Imagine if you held your arm up in front of your body to get it stronger. You hold it up all day. The muscles fatigue and become shorter and tighter. If you did this for days you would not get a strong arm but a weak, tight arm and a sore neck!

Your pelvic floor is no different. The muscles need to be able to relax and lengthen before they are ready for strength building.

If you think you may have pelvic floor tightness, get assessed by a pelvic floor physiotherapist. This will take the guess work out of your recovery and they will help you understand what is going on in your body.

What helps your pelvic floor recover?

Here are x great things you can do help your pelvic floor recovery:

  • Relax your pelvic floor muscles on your inhale, focus on letting them go and letting them descend on your in breath.

Doing this many times through the day will help with lengthening your pelvic floor muscles. Remember if your muscles can lengthen and relax then they can lift. A tight pelvic floor means a weak pelvic floor not a strong pelvic floor.

  • Spend time in positions where you can spread your sits bones

Childs pose and happy baby pose are great positions to support natural pelvic floor function. Use these positions to practice relaxing your pelvic floor on your inhale.

Ten to fifteen minutes of brisk walking 4-5 times a week is great for your pelvic floor. Remember not to be holding tight, allow your breath to descend into your pelvic floor muscles as you move around

  • Get assessed by a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist and find out what is going on for you

Everybody is different and if your symptoms are impacting on your life to the point where you feel less confident, you are in discomfort and pain everyday, your relationships are suffering, it’s worth taking action because you don’t have to live like this!

What doesn’t help your pelvic floor recover?

  • Doing kegels everyday even if you are not feeling any improvement

Kegels will not work for everybody. If they are not working for you go to the list above and start working through it.

  • Become aware of whether you are holding your pelvic floor up during the day

It can become an unconscious thing where we hold tightness in our pelvic floor to ‘keep it strong’ or to ‘stop it from dropping’. This will make it difficult for your pelvic floor to function and get stronger – see the analogy of the arm above. Start with awareness and then you can start practice relaxing.

  • Strong core work outs

It’s common especially for post-natal women to feel like they have to get back into intense abdominal / core workouts to strengthen their pelvic floor muscles. Unfortunately if you have issues with pelvic floor function this will only make things worse. Beginning with restoring function and learning good pressure management is the best approach for long term pelvic floor strength.

  • Pancake bum or tight, weak glutes

If you are wondering where your butt muscles went, this will not be helping your pelvic floor. We need good strong glute muscles to support our pelvic position, without this our pelvic floor takes up the work of other muscles by gripping tight. Then everything gets weak and tight together. Release, lengthen and strengthen your glutes to support your pelvic floor function.

Why haven’t I heard about this from my doctor?

Women’s health is definitely playing ‘catch up’ when it comes to supporting women to enjoy healthy pelvic floor function. The primary focus for our health system is reducing maternal morbidity, keeping mums and babies alive. And rightly so! The focus is not on helping women maintain a healthy pelvic floor throughout their lives, even though the impact of pelvic floor issues can be debilitating.

I think the lack of focus on this area of women’s health is also related to the invisibility of mothering and menopause in our society and a belief that women just have to put up with pelvic floor issues as they have children and age. But the truth is women without children and men also experience pelvic floor issues.

Pelvic floor issues can affect your confidence (incontinence and pressure down), give you pain and discomfort everyday (constipation, low back pain, hip pain, pelvic pain) and put strain on your relationship (painful sex). Pelvic floor issues are preventable through good assessment and targeted release and training. Imagine your life without these issues, it’s possible to get there!

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I am Brigid Pearse a certified Pilates instructor, Pregnancy and Post-natal Exercise Specialist, an ex-dancer and a mum. I run a fully equipped Pilates studio from my home in Lennox Head and I run community Pilates mat classes in Byron Bay, Ballina and online.